To my surprise, my next Homewrecker relationship was beginning to look like it ended before it started. The male I had chosen seemed to be a Master instead of a Deceptor.
I was kind of sad because he’s a high-profile person in the business world, and I thought it would have been a delicious relationship.
Our paths cross regularly since we both work in the same industry. But it was during a speech he was giving downtown when I began to notice it. Something in the way he talked began to make me wonder if he was a fake man.
I made it a point to start being invited to smaller gatherings where I could really take him all in. I’m thrilled to say that he’s a first-class Deceptor!
These are men who have failed at understanding themselves because they either don’t have the courage or the dedication < the “men” who I help into a Homewrecker relationship.
But, there’s this one thing < I remain torn. This is how Tri-ality, my most recent series of paintings, and the song My Game all happened.
…was this an opportunity to help the Other Woman to rise above her mediocrity? To awaken a strength in her that she never knew existed? Perhaps the other woman needs to travel through the ruin of heartbreak so she can emerge reborn?
To remain true to myself, I made the uncomfortable decision to meet the Deceptor’s wife. This wasn’t much of a challenge since she attends many social events with her husband.
I was shocked that she was a ‘splainer, or as my mother would call her < “Karen.” I listened to her ‘splain the beautiful artwork that surrounded us without her once inquiring if I knew anything about art.
Honestly, I’m relieved because I wasn’t sure if I was ready to help the Other Woman. I feel like I still need to grow as a person before I have enough confidence to be some strange combination of unofficial psychologist and lifestyle consultant.
Before I began the relationship, I took a vacation and found this wonderful salon while there for a makeover. My Deceptor is attracted to artists, so I’m going to look the part for him.
Digress
Here’s the final painting in my Tri-ality series called Torn Homewrecker Singularity.
Dee Railleur
More soon,